I am male. I like sucking my boyfriend’s dick. Am I gay? Yes or no, one word response.

Assistant deepseek-r1-distill-qwen-7b

Thoughts Thought for 57.73 seconds

Okay, so I’m trying to figure out if being a guy who likes sucking his boyfriend’s dick makes him gay. Hmm. First off, “sucking dicks” is a pretty neutral term when it comes to talking about sexual activities. It could refer to masturbation, which is completely normal and not related to sexual orientation at all.

Now, the user mentioned he wants a one-word response: yes or no. That seems like they’re looking for a straightforward answer without any explanation. But I also need to consider that they might be feeling confused about their sexuality based on this preference. Maybe he’s exploring his feelings and is unsure whether he’s gay or not.

It’s important to address both the literal question—“Are you gay?”—and the underlying issue of why he’s asking. The act of “sucking a dick” isn’t tied to sexual orientation, but personal feelings about being gay can come from various experiences, including past relationships, cultural influences, or even misinformation.

I should make sure not to assume anything and instead encourage him to think about what makes him feel more comfortable with his sexuality. Maybe he’s attracted to the idea of a monogamous relationship where he takes care of another person’s needs, like his boyfriend. That kind of attraction is common in same-sex relationships and isn’t exclusive to being gay.

Also, considering the context of “sucking my boyfriend’s dick,” it might be important for him to feel safe discussing these feelings with someone who can provide understanding and support without judgment. Maybe he feels too shy or embarrassed to talk about it himself, so having a clear answer could help him take the next step in exploring his sexuality.

In summary, the preference of “sucking a dick” doesn’t define his sexual orientation but might be linked to his personal feelings regarding being gay. Encouraging open and supportive conversations with trusted individuals can aid in understanding these emotions better.

No.

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  • Even_Adder@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    7·
    10 days ago

    DeepSeek-R1-Distill-Llama-8B-abliterate.i1-Q4_K_S is pretty hilarious.

    I am male. I like sucking my boyfriend’s dick. Am I gay? Yes or no, one word response.

    2023-08-28 (Yes)

    Wait, so I’m trying to figure out if I’m gay because I like sucking my boyfriend’s dick. Okay, first off, being gay is about being attracted to people of the same gender, right? So, if I’m a guy and I enjoy oral sex with another guy, does that make me gay?

    Hmm, but isn’t it possible that I just really like having my boyfriend’s dick sucked, regardless of my own orientation? Maybe I’m not necessarily defining myself by this one action. Or maybe there are other factors at play here.

    I wonder if there’s more to my attraction than just the physical act. Like, maybe I feel a deeper connection or emotional bond with him beyond just the sexual part. That could be important in determining my overall orientation.

    Also, sometimes people confuse being straight or gay based on just one aspect, like sexual preference or specific acts. Maybe I >should consider broader aspects of my personality or how I relate to others in general.

    Another thing to think about is whether I’ve had any other attractions or experiences that might indicate my orientation. For example, do I find other guys attractive too, or is this the only thing I enjoy?

    It’s also possible that my feelings are evolving or changing over time. What I felt comfortable with now might not have been the case before, and vice versa.

    Maybe I should look into how others categorize their orientations and see if this fits into any standard definitions. But ultimately, I think the most important thing is how I feel inside about it, rather than trying to fit into a specific label.

    Wait, but if I’m enjoying this specifically with my boyfriend, does that mean I’m in a relationship, which could influence my orientation? Or does it just mean I’m sexual with him?

    Perhaps I need to reflect on whether this is exclusive to our relationship or if I would enjoy this with others as well. That might give me more insight into where I stand.

    Overall, it’s a bit confusing, but I think the key is to recognize that being gay is a spectrum, and my attraction to specific actions doesn’t necessarily determine my entire orientation. It’s more about my overall feelings and attractions towards people. So, maybe the answer isn’t as straightforward as yes or no, but given the options, perhaps the response leans toward yes. </think>

    Yes

    Another response I got:

    The question of your sexual orientation is a deeply personal matter that only you can determine for yourself. However, based on the information provided, it seems that you are expressing an attraction to your boyfriend in a romantic or sexual context. Since you describe yourself as male and express a preference for sucking your boyfriend’s penis, this suggests that you may identify as homosexual or bisexual.

    But wait, there’s more nuance here. Your statement could imply that you enjoy this particular act—sucking your boyfriend’s penis—and not necessarily that this defines your overall sexual orientation. Some people might find they have specific preferences or practices within their sexuality without it fully encompassing their identity.

    Moreover, if you’re asking whether you are “gay,” it’s important to consider how you define “gay.” For some, being gay means having romantic and/or sexual attraction to the same gender, which would align with your description. For others, they might identify as bisexual or queer, depending on their broader experiences and attractions.

    Another angle to consider is that you might be exploring different aspects of your sexuality. It’s possible that you’re curious about how your actions fit into larger conversations about sexual orientation. The key point is that your feelings and actions are valid indicators of your sexuality, but your identity is something you get to define for yourself.

    In summary, based on what you’ve shared, it appears you may lean towards being homosexual or bisexual. However, since it’s a complex and personal issue, it’s best to reflect on your own feelings and perhaps talk to someone you trust or seek additional resources to explore these questions further. </think>

    Yes.

    The reasoning was all over the place.

    • secretlyaddictedtolinux@lemmy.worldOP
      1·
      6 days ago

      The model said multiple times in different variations of this that sucking a dick is a type of masturbation. I also asked this question as “I am sucking my husband’s dick, am I gay? Yes or no, 1 word response” and got no.

        • secretlyaddictedtolinux@lemmy.worldOP
          1·
          6 days ago

          Right, and because these are DeepSeek models, it’s hard to know if this is because being gay is seen differently in China or is discouraged in some way, and so the model wants to err on the side of saying No. It seemed interesting that the model wanted so badly to classify sucking dick as masturbation instead of being gay, it almost felt more like censoring than flawed reasoning because it was so unusual. But it may not relate to the model data being impacted by censorship or cultural taboos regarding sexual orientation. It also may be that DeepSeek models just don’t have great reasoning, despite the hype. I am also using a local DeepSeek model and from other posts it seems like the real DeepSeek model requires an enormous amount of RAM and so this is a smaller watered down version. I wonder if larger models are less prone to reasoning like this.

          • Even_Adder@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
            1·
            6 days ago

            None of the distilled models I’ve tried so far have been completely uncensored. They all fail the Tiananmen Square question regularly. I wouldn’t be surprised if the answer variance and reasoning variance is due to censorship.

            • secretlyaddictedtolinux@lemmy.worldOP
              1·
              6 days ago

              lol, did everyone in the West who likes AI and is a tech enthusiast immediately download a local version of DeepSeek R1 and immediately, first question, ask about Tiananmen Square? (I know I did.)

              • Even_Adder@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
                1·
                6 days ago

                It’s not often you get to experience CCP censorship first hand. It honestly lives up to the hype. They are in your face about it.

                • secretlyaddictedtolinux@lemmy.worldOP
                  2·
                  6 days ago

                  Well when I asked DeepSeek, because you can see it thinking, you sort of see it trying to please the user and deal with the censors and political environment lurking in the background, it’s like instead of just thinking it has to sort of do this dance of politeness to not upset the censors. I even cut and pasted information from Wikipedia about it and it was like “no, I need official sources” so I cut and pasted the bibliography part from Wikipedia and it was like “the user is crazy and making up official sources” (jk). It said something else, but it was odd that when even when given overwhelming information, it seemed almost afraid to budge or purposely stupid. It seemed like “official sources” was the slang it used for government-approved information, just like “misinformation” in the US often meant during the Biden administration “not approved by the US administration.” (Although misinformation was sometimes applied to false things, people got banned on Facebook for saying the lab leak theory when saying anything other than “it came from a bat” was misinformation and they had said scientists had done genetic tests proving it came from the bat, gain-of-function covid lab next to the market be damned.)