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    4 hours ago

    But that very impulse is inimical to making friends. You make friends by being open to making friends, and by being interested in other people, regardless of whether they are ‘friend material.’

    You shouldn’t even be assuming you know or can predict what makes someone friend material for you. One can be surprised.