My experience with ChatGPT goes like this:
I’d go for stability. Smaller instances can be slow. If you want fast load times use a bigger one, like mastodon.social
Bluesky is very barebones and has even less functionality than Mastodon. Beside having a similar look to Twitter I don’t understand why people choose it.
Arch Wiki has saved my ass so many times.
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