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Cake day: November 6th, 2023

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  • otp@sh.itjust.workstoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    12 days ago

    Wouldn’t it be better if you started a year early so you can give him a heads-up on everything when he starts the next year?

    This way you can put your boyfriend first and yourself first. Seems like a win-win to me.

    Unless you’re wanting to do this because of some other underlying issue that you haven’t disclosed (risk of jealousy? Anxious attachment style?).


  • Be good to those you meet on your way to the top because you never know who you’ll see again during your fall to the bottom.

    Heard this and it stuck with me. Not because I was “mean”, but it’s just a good perspective on why even someone utilitarian (or psychopathic) should be nice.

    What if (god forbid) she lost her beauty? What if one of the people she was mean to attacked her face causing permanent damage? The others will remember that she was mean to her and show her no sympathy.

    Big dogs shouldn’t eat small dogs. They should protect them.