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Cake day: February 14th, 2024

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  • I think I’m very much a generalist, but the areas in deep on I’m much deeper than others.

    But that means as companies get bigger they want more specialists and i end up less valuable as I’m just filling in gaps.

    Makes finding those good companies harder, but I’m more valuable to small companies than hiring 3-4 people, so I can command good pay.


















  • You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink.

    What’s weird about this broader “conversation” on masculinity is I feel more masculine than ever, despite not giving a flying fuck about any of this.

    I never really struggled with it except as a teen, but the older I get the less I care.

    I still say we made a mistake with communicating to men about feminism. We kind of left people who are terrible like Andrew Tate to dominate the conversation when people shut down men’s rights groups as de facto misogynistic, and now here we are.