it’s sort of not your decision to make though. someone else’s body is generally not made for you, even if you’re in a relationship. your ex could choose to respect your opinion on their body, but it’s definitely not mandatory and should not be treated as normal and self-explanatory. getting surgery might add confidence in this twisted world.
Agreed, and that’s fine. It’s also my call if my partner’s body part(s) stops turning me on. It’s not judgement for getting the procedure. It’s the sensation after the procedure.
At the same time, you’re not obligated to find them attractive though. And if your partner decides to alter their appearance to the point where you don’t find them attractive any more, ending that relationship is just as valid.
it’s sort of not your decision to make though. someone else’s body is generally not made for you, even if you’re in a relationship. your ex could choose to respect your opinion on their body, but it’s definitely not mandatory and should not be treated as normal and self-explanatory. getting surgery might add confidence in this twisted world.
Agreed, and that’s fine. It’s also my call if my partner’s body part(s) stops turning me on. It’s not judgement for getting the procedure. It’s the sensation after the procedure.
At the same time, you’re not obligated to find them attractive though. And if your partner decides to alter their appearance to the point where you don’t find them attractive any more, ending that relationship is just as valid.