This is a hate space 😤
I hate when an app tells me to take a picture of my driver’s license
should be illegal tbh
I hate how a lot of men make the rest of us look bad. Can we just chill out for a bit? Like, can guys stop beating on their wives, molesting children, raping, and murdering? Please? Idk what to do besides just be chill myself and try to encourage others to be the same. Let’s just read some books with some piano in the background.
I don’t look bad because they do those things. I am not them. What a bizarre proposition.
nah bro, you don’t understand. you and anyone penis having adjacent are personally liable for the actions of every man…
or so feminist theory says.
weird though that when a woman rapes a kid, or beats someone, or murders someone… not all women are responsible for her actions… she’s just some lone psycho…
The number of men that do those things compared to the number of women doing those same things aren’t in the same ballpark.
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I’m OK with hearing black people commit more low level crimes than white people.
I’ll take that over 7 out of 10 white men either fuck children or want to fuck children and 7 out of 10 white women are more likely to lie and make false allegations to avoid accountability for anything.
It’s an absolute shit show.
Women have it bad. Honestly I don’t know how how you all have the patience to try to figure out which guy isn’t a psycho.
As a cis het man, I know that alone is enough to make some women say “pass”.
I feel like if men learned more about consent and empathy and stopped listening to assholes like Andrew Tate or Joe Rogan, we’d be in a much better state.
Had my first creep encounter at night outside after transitioning. Nooot fun lol
No patience, just sheer terror.
I hate when people are needlessly negative.
Hey, fuck you.
This drives me up the wall here on Lemmy and it manifests itself in so many ways. People just being outright shitty and calling each other names over a difference in opinion like “shitlib” rather than listening to what they’re saying.
Or even those who misinterpret why they’re being downvoted and start spitballing while using that as an opportunity to grind their axe. “Oh, poor me is being downvoted for having these perfect ideals, it’s the grander community who hates me, wah!” No, you’re just being hardheaded and causing your own problems, why are you blaming everyone else?
Gah! 🙄
Daylight Saving time, Donald Trump & his supporters, the US healthcare “system”, mosquitos, Christmas music, babies on airplanes, hangnails, bigotry and intolerance of other people’s cultures, and the Dutch.
Dutch?
Austin powers reference: “there’s only two things i hate in this world”
Software that switched from: Yes/No
to: Yes/Ask Me Later.Mine is drivers who act like there aren’t other people on the road. IE turning into your lane doing greatly reduced speed right in front of you, Doing well below speed limits in faster lanes and refusing to get over, etc.
Uninstall + search for foss alternative
every chance I get
I got angry just reading this!
I’d imagine some random cashier at a Walmart 2 years from now asking “Do you want your reciept?” and the options are “Yes / Maybe Later”
Ads. I am so fucking sick of ads. I have ad blockers on many things and my next network project will be adding a pihole to my network for network ad block. Sick of it.
It’s getting crazy. Or I’m just becoming more aware of them.
Normal is crazy, so it could be either. My shock when 🏴☠️ I realized that TV show episodes (not streaming) are generally 22 minutes for a half-hour slot - almost a third of TV is ads.
My husband has set up a pihole and it’s the best ever. It used to run off an actual raspberry pi but now we have a home server and he got it set up on there. Literally yesterday he also added Tailscale to our computers and phones and it seriously rocks my socks. I don’t even exactly know what it does but suddenly I’m not getting any ads while at my in-laws house on their WiFi so, score! I am not tech savvy enough to know about these things, much less set them up myself, but I am super thankful that my husband aggressively hates ads and I get to benefit from his crusade against them.
Tailscale is a virtual private network (VPN). It connects everything together that is connected to it as though they are all in the same place. You might be physically at your in-laws house but your device is communicating with a private network over your in-laws’ network.
Whoa, that’s insane. I didn’t think VPNs worked like that.
Large corporate offices often run VPNs in a similar way, anyone with a work-from-home laptop or phone generally has to log into a VPN to get internet/network access.
You sound like me haha. Is there a good Lemmy site to replace r/AdBlock? We need to get like minded people together to form an underground resistance against the ads.
I also wish more specialized communities existed. The trouble is, I lack the willpower to moderate them and the discipline to find things to post regularly to get them going. :/
I have an executive function disorder, ads literally prey on my disability even as society laughs at the idea of attention being something other than a product of pure limitless willpower.
Just people in general who are unaware of how their actions affect others negatively, in any and all aspects of life. Especially when out in public, of course. At the grocery store, at the mall, in the parking lot, while driving, when talking, when online, every goddamn thing.
There are countless small things that are simple to avoid yet cause significant inconvenience to others. Or on the flip side, simple things to do, that would mean very much to another person.
Just think about your surroundings, treat everyone with kindness, respect, and give them the benefit of the doubt. Be welcoming. That’s what makes/would make the world go around, and a nice place to live in.
But people live in their goddamn individualism bubbles and are completely oblivious. Sometimes people will be walking towards me in the street, perhaps two or three people side by side. And they’ll fucking walk straight at me and I’ll have to literally stop in my tracks to avoid colliding with them. Literally a few feet apart will they realize we will collide unless they change their trajectory. Mind you they won’t apologize or realize they inconvenienced me. No. No, they’ll just realize that they need to swerve unless they want to collide. And I know they see me from afar, because sometimes we’ll even have eye contact and shit. Idiots.
People, man. Why it gotta be this way. 🤌
At the moment, everything.
This time last year, I was meant to be buying my own apartment and finally moving out from my parents’ home. Then I got laid off, spent seven months struggling to find work and then landed a temporary purchase ledger job which I fucking hate. Partially because the commute takes me about 2 hours each way, partially because I work an 8-5 shift and have to get up at stupid o’clock in the morning on office days, and partially because we use Oracle Fusion which is the biggest crock of shit I’ve ever used.
Unfortunately that means I have to live with my parents for even longer. Renting somewhere is out of the question because Bristol is the second-most expensive British city to live in, and I basically can’t get a mortgage without a full time job.
Sometimes I question why I chose to pivot towards accounting. I have a History degree, I’m fully AAT qualified and I’m halfway through my ACCA and I’m earning £13.50 an hour, or just £1.29 above minimum wage on a zero-hours contract. I can genuinely earn nearly as much from stacking shelves, flipping burgers or pouring pints, not that there’s really many hospitality or retail jobs available. Office days genuinely take 13 hours out of my day. 8 of these are working, 4 of these are the commute and 1 is the lunch break I get.
My future is uncertain and I feel like there’s no point in bothering. Best-case scenario, AI is truly a bubble that’s going to burst, crash the stock market and leave us in a recession. At worst, it takes all our jobs and the rich leave us to starve.
Despite a brief relationship with a woman who finally popped my cherry (we’re still really close friends and I’m grateful she took my virginity), my love life is practically nonexistent. Online dating is an absolute void where I only seem to match with GPS-spoofing South-East Asian and African women either pulling love scams or trying to find a Western spouse and the means to a green card. Two ladies messed around with my feelings and led me on big time this year and that’s left me exhausted.
I have a lipoma on my neck which is going to cost me a lot to remove, and good luck actually finding the time to get the consultation and surgery/liposuction booked. The NHS won’t do it because it’s not cancerous, even though this thing has grown to the point where it’s 5.5cm in diameter and sticks out like a sore thumb.
Time to leave America, if that’s where you are. Really. Come to anywhere else eastward, just across the pond. We gotchu. Work, women, healthcare. Maybe take care of the last and first one first, then the second will come trailing.
Did you miss the pound signs and the fact they literally said they were in Bristol, England? They are across the pond, and having an awful time. Also, do you think that America and England don’t have women?
Ah, England. Yeah maybe go somewhere within the EU. 😅
Of course America and England have women? I just said we do. 🤷♂️
When you were in school they gave you your tests face down, didn’t they?
I got good grades, if that’s what you are trying to insult me with. What’s your problem? Can you just be real and talk to me like a person? What are you trying to say? I know every country has women, ffs. I’m also saying we in the EU have healthcare and jobs almost everywhere.
Is that wrong? What’s the issue and why the insults? Try to keep it an adult conversation, please. Thanks.
What’s your problem? I wasn’t put on this earth to talk with or educate you. I SAID I no longer have any interest in talking to you; you can’t understand that but you got shining grades?
Why don’t you go demand things from some other person; because I guarantee you don’t want to take this further.
My problem is you being rude for no reason. We try to be nice to each other here on Lemmy. Your account age tells me maybe you haven’t figured out the vibe here yet. It’s not the same as Reddit. We try to keep a chill vibe and not threaten people and insult them, like you are doing.
I am not “shining” my grades. You were insulting my grades in school, I’m just defending myself from your defamation. 👍 Simple as that. And now that part of the conversation is water under the bridge, I’m willing to forget that. 🙂
What “demands” do you claim I’m making?
Thanks for being more chill in your responses from now on. I’m not here to bicker and argue. Just straightening things out, okie dokie? 🤝
