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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I’m seething, but that isn’t all that useful, I need to find a more productive way to be.

    Hopefully we will get there. But we have to build before we can break down.

    If that victory is won, and I do believe it can be, then we can rebuild better than before.

    With climate change and everything else we face, can we realistically pull through? Fuck if I know, but this is literally the fight of our lives and futures. We have to unite, no matter how angry we are at various leftist factions.

    Me? I assumed women would unify for their right to bodily autonomy. Since they didn’t I don’t dismiss them but hope to bring them into the fold, because they’re needed and do not want to live as Handmaids, for one example.



  • There’s no useful discussion to be had from you. You’re just looking for a fight.

    I’m tired of reddit refugees coming here and bringing that attitude.

    I’m an American who has never had that bravado, has always voted against this bullshit, and even online we get spat upon when we are the ones who will somehow have to overcome the largest military on the planet.

    Fucking hell, try being, I dunno, useful or supportive. If we fail here, you’ll face the consequences. That’s the sad reality.


  • The Christian Science Monitor is amazing, and from it’s name you’d never expect it.

    My grandmother was a Christian Scientist. I respect her but it’s a baffling cultish offshot.

    Its basis, though, was in radiacal feminism in the late 1800s. I used to read the Christian Science Monitor when we would visit her when I was a kid.

    A large part of why I defaulted to atheism is from the fact that my Dad’s parents were never openly religious, my Dad is a Buddhist, my mom was nominally Christian, her mom we already discussed, and her Dad was a Congregationalist Minister and organ player.

    I figured none of them could be right and it was better to try to be a good person without those structures.

    Grandma and I never saw eye to eye, unfortunately.




  • Thank you.

    Like “choose to be happy” isn’t a magical mantra but something you need to work on in order to change the way you reflexively think.

    “Be yourself” is essential advice for people trying to have a mask on 24/7.

    And I’ve mostly given up replying to such threads because they’re usually an excuse to wallow and complain that they’ve tried everything.

    I don’t have a magic potion that makes things better overnight, but I do have techniques that I have found valuable in improving my own mental health, but by bit, over several years.