• AFK BRB Chocolate@lemmy.world
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    I don’t know who originally said it, but “Everything in moderation, including moderation.” That is, it’s okay to go overboard on something as long as that’s an exception, not a norm. Want to eat a whole carton of ice cream? It’s not going to kill you if you do it, as long as you don’t do it every weekend. Enjoy stuff, don’t be excessive generally, but the rare occasion is just fine.

    Note: there are, of course, exceptions. You probably don’t want to try even a little black tar heroin unless you’re okay with the risk of becoming an addict.

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    “I have the right to wipe my ass with a pinecone, but that doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do.”

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    “You’re imagining everyone in this story way more attractive than they actually were.”
    - some reddit guy

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    Life’s a bitch and then you die, that’s why we get high 'Cause you never know when you’re gonna go

    Self explanatory

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        Nope.

        Nearly every single time in my life that I have expended a significant or even massive amount of time, money, attention, intellectual or emotional capacity toward someone, solved their problems for them, it has been taken for granted, become expected, never reciprocated, and most of the people I helped went on to rope me into situations where I was even more on the hook, or they’d abuse me verbally or physically.

        I finally concluded that none of the idiots in my life actually cared about me at all and just left.

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            Assuming your name is a pun on Thoreau, I could sure go for a cabin in the woods.

            But yeah. I have been promised so many times oh trust me bro this plan will work and then no it doesn’t and if I get mad about it the other person has an emotional breakdown aaannnd a year later i still haven’t been paid back.

            Or even more fun, doing things to help people that cost me money, with no pay, only to find out a year or two later oh well I paid other person to do the same fucking thing.

            Then they promise to make it up to me down the line and whoops that thing they promised? Oh they sold it to someone else, so sorry.

            Gaslighting. So much gaslighting. I never said that. I already paid you back why are you still bringing this up? Im starting to get worried about your memory!

            Its left me with extreme loner syndrome as I am so very used to every one I ever care for abusing my trust and betraying me.

  • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 🏆@yiffit.net
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    “Necessary? Is it necessary that I drink my own urine? No! I do it because it’s sterile and I enjoy the taste!”

    Meaning: It doesn’t matter if it’s necessary, you should still do things because you enjoy doing it.

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    “Heroes are not giant statues framed against a red sky, they are people who say ‘This is my community and it’s my responsibility to make it better.’” - Tom McCall, Oregon Governor 1967-1974.

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    The true mind can weather all the lies and illusions without being lost. The true heart can touch the poison of hatred without being harmed.

    -Badass Lion Turtle

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    “We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.”

    ETA, same thing a different way: “That’s the thing. I don’t think I believe in ‘deep down’. I kind of think all you are is just the things that you do.”

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        The first one is from Kurt Vonnegut’s Mother Night, which is the story of the American Nazi propagandist, Howard Campbell, who briefly appears in the more well-known book, Slaughterhouse Five. The second is from the show BoJack Horseman, specifically episode 12 of the first season.