• I lived a couple houses down from a cop.

    His whole family were dickish Karen types and got the annual block party shut down. Their house was regularly egged and TPd until they moved. I may or may not have been involved in some of those eggings.

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    My grandmother lived next to cop. You don’t want to live next to a cop. They think they’re the authority over EVERYTHING. He built his fence three feet into her yard. What an asshole, thinking he’d run over a 90 year old lady. We forced him to move it.

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    Cops can be fine, many of them want to do good. But law enforcement also attracts/breeds a certain type of thumbhead person that either loves or hates you.

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    My neighbor is a transit cop. Idk what his deal is but he hasn’t spoken to me in six years so I figure we’re cool.

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    Cop lives somewhere down the street.

    I ignore him.

    But I also have talked to the neighbors on purpose like. Twice. In almost twenty years lol.

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    My neighbour growing up was a cop. He and his wife were Christian fundies who had like 8 kids.

    I literally never had a single bad interaction with them, and by all accounts he was an alright dad to those kids. I still see him when I visit my folks for the holidays, and when I do, I see his kids now all grown up with kids of their own visiting their parents

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    Not american here, cops here are actually a trained job with multiple years of training before going out. 3 years pure training minimum and the slightes missbehaviour can get you fired and suspended from your job which will be marked down

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    Depends on the situation. But generally agree with the top comment.

    Recently a cop help me with something not so super legal. Was kinda hilarious as neither of us knew about the other until we casually talked about work and he showed his badge. He was really sweet, and just hated his job. Lost soul. Hope he finds a better way. But he’s still a cop, so I ultimately wouldn’t trust him.

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    My general rule for cops is to keep my head down. They have no particular reason to bother me, but they’re also a certain kind of person. (Inevitably, because the job is awful and nobody else can handle it long-term)

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      What is awful about the job? I’ve never done it so I don’t know. But it seems like they cannot be fired, even if they mess up so badly that someone dies. That doesn’t sound so bad to me.

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        They deal confrontationally with the worst people available at their worst moments, and sometimes do it all day. Movies make us think it’s all masterminds and shootouts, but actual calls are 99% drunks, bullies and wife-beaters.

        Like, think of the most toxic interaction you’ve ever had. Now consider doing it multiple times a week. You either become toxic yourself or you burn out.

        Edit: You know the Florida man meme? Florida just has laws that get more details published. It’s like that everywhere, and probably less funny and more traumatic in person.

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          Okay but when i’m in a toxic situation at work I can’t shoot someone and get away without consequences lol.

          When police show up to a scene, ordinary citizens have no power over them whatsoever. The police have the upper hand, every single time. Whereas if I get into an argument with a co-worker, client, or shopper I could be fired.

          The reason workplaces are toxic are because employees are powerless. Police can literally murder people anytime they want and get away with it.

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            Sure, and if you’re the sort of person that needs everything to be sorted into neat black or white bins, maybe that’s relevant.

            The fact that getting screamed at and spit on is unpleasant remains, though.

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              Police officers aren’t regularly screamed at or spit on. Where are you getting your information from? Are you just making it up?

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                Yes, they are. You think whatever asshole doing a domestic is above it? They manufacture spit hoods because that’s a regular issue.

                I literally witnessed an arrest like this myself within the past month or so.

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                  So your evidence is… a single witness event? And you think that means it happens with regularity? I’m sorry but something isn’t adding up. : /