• count_dongulus@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    In school and 99% of scenarios, physicality doesn’t do any good. But if you have a really young child, like 3-5, and they hurt another child or an animal and show no remorse, I think spanking is acceptable as a punishment immediately after the incident. They might have trouble with developing empathy and need to understand they hurt another being.

    • androogee (they/she)@midwest.social
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      2 years ago

      How does their adult role model hitting them not just teach them that hitting is socially acceptable?

      Teaching this to a kid without empathy seems like the worst imaginable circumstance lol.

      And I sure as hell don’t want someone other than the parents ever making that decision.

  • BigMacHole@lemm.eeBanned from community
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    2 years ago

    It’s CHILD ABUSE!

    To not allow TEACHERS to SPANK KIDS! I’m a Republican trying to Protect The Children!

  • givesomefucks@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    We had “optional” corporal punishment.

    You could choose swats with a paddle, or writing sentences over and over.

    Most people took swats, but I just picked sentences and never did them. They’d double the amount a couple times and eventually stop asking for them.

    But absolutely zero boys gave a shit about taking swats, it was no deterrent what so ever. Even knowing that there was an easy way out of the alternative, they’d just take swats and immediately forget it happened.

    If anything it made behavior worse, because they could do whatever and then have a few seconds of discomfort later if and only if they were caught doing the bad thing.

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        2 years ago

        We’ll. Unless you want me to call up my middle school gym teacher I dont really know what you want me to do here champ…

        But part of that is because you replied to a long comment asking for a source without mentioning what you were talking about.

        Even then, looking at my entire comment I have absolutely zero idea what the fuck you’re asking for here.

      • givesomefucks@lemmy.world
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        2 years ago

        Oh yeah, I think girls didn’t even have the option.

        I dont know if the girls gym teacher just wouldn’t do it, or if none of them picked it, but none of them got swats.

        But almost every gym class there was a line of boys waiting.

      • HomerianSymphony@lemmy.world
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        2 years ago

        At my school, the principal wasn’t allowed to paddle girls. Only boys.

        I don’t know who made that rule but I can imagine why.

      • androogee (they/she)@midwest.social
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        2 years ago

        Girls have a higher pain tolerance than boys.

        Sounds like the sort of thing a doctor says while explaining himself at an inquisition.

        I’m seeing conflicting research on a cursory look.

  • blazera@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    Heres my argument against hitting kids. Mississippi loves it, cant get enough of it. Every ailment of society is caused by kids not getting hit enough, and they wear their past of childhood violence as their biggest badge of honor. Hitting kids is how you get Mississippians.